Wednesday, November 13, 2013
The Odd Life of Timothy Green, Faith, Movies, and Infertility
The Adoption at the Movies contest generated many helpful
recommendations. Mary Clare Evans is an author and illustrator working on a
child’s book about adoption. Look for more on that later. She shared about a
film that can help make sense of infertility.
My favorite is "The Odd Life of Timothy Green". Hands down. It is a fantasy-
themed movie, but the emotions surrounding the themes of infertility and
adoption are very real. It's a funny, smart and heartfelt look at how adoption
changes lives.


The most powerful theme in Timothy Green is the idea that
God's plans are better than ours if we only open ourselves to that possibility.
He writes straight with a crooked line. Although infertility is deeply painful
and doesn't make sense to us, it is a vehicle that opens hearts to adopting,
creating a beautiful family that is truly meant to be. The movie doesn't
specifically mention God, but the theme is there nonetheless. (Obviously some
families adopt for other reasons, but infertility and adoption are often two
sides of the same coin).
The humor of Jim and Cindy trying to be the best parents possible
and working out their own childhood issues is a secondary theme I think most of
us can relate to. We have all been there.
Adoptive parents have all dealt with the Brenda Bests of the world
(Cindy's well meaning, but obnoxious sister), those who undermine our families
with insensitive and caustic comments. We learn to take these people in stride
and try to educate them on what our families are really about. But their
remarks are painful and live deep inside us.
Every adoptive parent I know has a litany of ugly things people have
said about their children. We all become adoption educators by default. The
plus side of positive adoption movies is when the media joins us in portraying
what adoption actually is: a healthy, natural and wonderful way to create a
family.
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